Thursday, January 5, 2012
Have you ever felt this wtih your shrink?
Im a 31yr old woman. I've alot of problems and am seeing my shrink that i last saw 8 yrs ago. I've known her since i was 18 and she helped me through alot. I have very fond feelings for her. When i phoned she recognised me after 10 years. She said come and see her and gave me a generous reduction on her fees. She also hugged me on seeing me and when leaving i made the advance, to hug her.She reciprocated and it felt really lovely and natural. I used to look on her as a mom figure as my own mom is not emotionally able. But i know this can happen in therapy. Its called transference or something. And she is probably same with every client,its a job. Shes told me i'm really speical. Just the rapport is amazing, i've tried it with other therapists and it doesnt work. It feels really intense. Its not ual. I dont want this to go anywhere in that line. I know its not happening and i dont want it. Also i find after the session we dont have alot in common. I would love if she felt the same way but i know that a line cannot be crossed here. She is a therapist, i'm paying for a service and there are boundaries.I would tell her anything. I've just had another session and got another hug. I feel happy for ages after and i really feel 'loved accepted and ok' .The feelings are amazing. I know i have to find them for myself,not from her. What should ido
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